Self-harm

Self-harm counseling in Orange County

Enhance provides self harm counseling Orange County adults and teens can start in outpatient therapy, with DBT to build safer ways to cope.

(714) 862-1907

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Clinically reviewed by Christina Khouie, MA, LMFT, our founder, on September 30, 2026. Enhance is accredited by The Joint Commission and certified by the California Department of Health Care Services.

Check your coverage

Send us three details and we’ll check what your plan covers, then call you back.

Benefits vary from plan to plan, and a verification is not a guarantee of coverage.

What it is

What is self-harm?

Self-harm is when a person hurts their own body on purpose to cope with emotional distress that feels too big to manage.

Clinicians also call it nonsuicidal self-injury, because the aim is usually to get through a feeling rather than to die. A clinician still checks for suicide risk in every self-harm assessment.

Self-harm

It is usually a way to cope with pain, not an attempt to die, but the effects of self-harm still build over time.

A suicide attempt

Some people who self-harm later attempt suicide, so thoughts of dying need help now. Call or text 988, or call 911 if someone is hurt.

If you are thinking about suicide, call or text 988 now. If someone is hurt, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.

Levels of care

Levels of care for self-harm

Many people get self-harm treatment in outpatient services, and PHP or inpatient care can help adults when staying safe at home is hard.

Inpatient

Where you sleep
On site, with clinical staff
How much of your week
All of it
Who it suits
Needs more than a day program
What usually comes next
PHP

Partial hospitalization (PHP)

Where you sleep
At home
How much of your week
Most of each day
Who it suits
Can sleep at home safely
What usually comes next
IOP

Intensive outpatient (IOP)

Where you sleep
At home
How much of your week
Part of the week
Who it suits
Keeping up work or school
What usually comes next
Outpatient

Outpatient

Where you sleep
At home
How much of your week
Regular sessions
Who it suits
Doing well with therapy
What usually comes next
Ongoing care

Teen programs are outpatient and involve the family, and admissions will tell you on the first call which level fits.

When to call

Signs and symptoms of self-harm

Symptoms of self-harm are often hidden out of shame, so treat these as possible signs rather than proof.

  • Injuries they cannot or will not explain, or explanations that keep changing.
  • Long sleeves or long pants, even in hot weather.
  • Talking about feeling worthless, hopeless or like a burden.
  • Pulling away from friends, family or activities they used to enjoy.

Call or text 988, or call 911, if

  • Someone has talked about wanting to die.
  • Someone has hurt themselves and may need medical care.
  • Someone cannot keep themselves safe right now.

If there is immediate danger, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room. For a mental health crisis, call or text 988.

What self-harm treatment includes

Each part of your treatment plan works on the feelings behind self-harming behaviors.

  • Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT)

    DBT was built for intense emotions and urges to self-harm, and it teaches coping skills such as distress tolerance and emotion regulation.

  • Individual and group therapy

    A licensed therapist works with you one to one, and group therapy lets you practice skills with others.

  • Family therapy

    Family members join sessions when it would help, so they learn how to respond calmly at home.

  • Medication management

    A licensed psychiatrist prescribes medication when a mental health condition such as depression is part of your plan.

Related conditions

Conditions that often come with self-harm

Self-harm often comes with another mental health condition, such as depression, anxiety or trauma, and we treat them together.

What happens when you call

See what happens when you call admissions or send us the form.

  • You call, or send the form

    You tell admissions what is happening and whether you think self-harm counseling might fit.

  • We check your benefits

    With your permission, we contact your insurer and find out what your plan covers.

  • You hear what it means

    Admissions explains your deductible, your copay and which level of care your plan supports, in plain terms.

  • You decide

    If you want to go ahead, admissions walks you through what happens next.

Benefits vary from plan to plan, and checking them does not guarantee coverage.

(714) 862-1907

Cost and coverage

What your plan may cover

What you pay depends on your deductible, your copay and the level your insurer approves. Admissions checks your benefits with the insurer and tells you the figures before you decide anything.

We're in network with most insurance plans. If your plan isn't listed, call us and we'll check it for you.

  • Aetna
  • Anthem
  • Blue Shield of California
  • Cigna Healthcare
  • Health Net
  • MultiPlan
  • Beacon Health Options
  • Optum
  • UnitedHealthcare

Some plans we accept

  • Ambetter
  • MHN
  • CalPERS
  • Covered California

Common questions about self-harm

If your question is not answered here, call admissions at (714) 862-1907.

  • Why do people self-harm if they are not trying to die?

    Self-harming behaviors can bring brief relief from overwhelming feelings, and they are rarely about getting attention.

  • Who self-harms?

    People of any age or background can self-harm, often starting in the teen years and alongside a mental health condition.

  • Why do clinicians screen for suicide risk when someone self-harms?

    Self-harm and thoughts of suicide can occur in the same person, so screening helps plan care that keeps you safe.

  • When should someone call or text 988 about self-harm?

    Call or text 988 whenever someone is thinking about suicide or cannot stay safe, and call 911 if someone is hurt.

  • What should I say when a loved one tells me they self-harm?

    Thank them, stay calm and listen without judging, because anger adds to the shame that makes people hide it.

  • How can parents support a teenager who is self-harming?

    Talk calmly and privately and ask whether they are safe right now. Our teen programs are outpatient and involve the family.

  • How does DBT help with self-harm?

    DBT teaches skills for getting through a strong feeling or urge without acting on it.

  • What is a safety plan?

    A safety plan is a short written list, made with a clinician, of warning signs, coping steps and people to contact, including 988.

  • Do therapists have to report self-harm?

    What you share in therapy is confidential, and your therapist explains the limits at the start, such as when someone's safety is at risk.

  • Does insurance cover self-harm treatment?

    Coverage depends on your plan, and admissions checks your benefits first, though checking does not guarantee coverage.

Talk with admissions about self-harm counseling

Call for yourself or for someone you love. If anyone is in danger now, call or text 988 or call 911 first.

Enhance Health Group14742 Newport Ave STE 208, Tustin, CA 92780